Move with him out of state??
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Move with him out of state??
| Wed, 12-26-2007 - 8:41pm |
I have been on the east coast all my life. I have a great job, friends, and family close by. But the man
| Wed, 12-26-2007 - 8:41pm |
YG
http://twodatediva.blogspot.com/
YG
http://twodatediva.blogspot.com/
This is a tough one for sure.
don't do it!! its only 8 months, not long enough for such a drastic change.
I did this silly mistake, moving about 200 miles from home, and now am moving back, house
up for sale...............I regretted it, it wasn't what I thought, and now want to go back to
family & friends.
Thanks to all of you for the great advice. I agree... he really threw a wrench in on this one. To put a little more detail in the mix, he is a firefighter, and has to take their agility test in March or April. So there is a chance he wont make it, but his chances are good, and this is his dream. So that does give us a
You've known him for 8 months....so what do you know about him? His name and family? Work and hobbies? Line of work? But do you know HIM really? Are you compatible with regard to standards in life? Do you have similar positions regarding religion, raising kids, viewing the future?
I agree with you, you bring up all great and valid points. So that everyone knows a little more about the situation, maybe some facts would help:
As far as our relationship: I know his family and he knows mine well. He is a firefighter and a successful real estate agent. He would be sacrificing just as much as I would in a lot of ways. Our standards in life, religious beliefs, raising kids and viewing the future are all very much the same. I do see myself with him in five years and more. I am extremely sensitive to red flags as I my last relationship (2 yrs before I met my current bf) was abusive and a nightmare, and
After reading your last post, I say do it.. go, it will be an adventure for you both, your family and friends will be there for you should things not go right.
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He made this choice of taking a job across the country without your input.