Lonely guy dilemma .. should I call ?
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| Sat, 12-29-2007 - 5:20pm |
hi everyone,
Would love a female's point of view on a matter I'm experiencing. I met a really cute girl at an airport 2 weeks ago. I sat down next to her in the lobby and fortunately our flight was delayed, and later canceled. We spent around 3-4 hours together, had great conversation and laughed pretty much the whole time. I asked for her number, she agreed to give it to me. Instead of calling (due my nerves getting the best of me) I decided to text her a week and a half after our initial meeting at the airport. Her response was pretty much vague which led me to believe she wasn't interested. My question is, did I wait too long? Do I still have a shot? Now I should mention, I do have a low self esteem problem (probably from people calling me ugly throughout the years).
Do I take the vague, uninterested text responses from her to mean she's just not interested.. or should I bite the bullet and give her a call? I know I'm a really great guy who has a lot to offer a girl, but it's just not easy finding the right one.
Regards,
VeggieV
Edited 12/30/2007 11:08 am ET by veggievin

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You didnt contact her for a week and a half soooo - she
Hi..
Just hoping I can read some more responses before I call her, as much as I am afraid of rejection I believe I'm going to do it. Does anyone think she'll be 'freaked out' by me calling?
V
Hi Snafu.. one thing I didn't mention- after we separated at the airport , as I found a flight that night and she found a flight the next morning, I texted her to share the good news that night, after receiving her number. I did it out of excitement that I was able to find a flight out of the airport and I ended the text by saying 'it was a pleasure meeting such a gorgeous girl!' . Her response was 'it was a pleasure meeting you as well, enjoy'. So she didn't reciprocate the compliment. Is this something of worry? Ok, I know I'm being overly analytical but I'm trying my best not to feel rejected out of this whole situation :). And I'm once again on the fence that I shouldn't call! Ugh, this is so frustrating..
V
Hi Veggievin!
Boy you like to create your own frustrations..dont you?
ok I'm back in the same boat, unable to call, not sure if this is the right time to call.. it has been a little more than 2 weeks- will she even remember any details from that day we met at the airport. am I fooling myself that i can be with such a cute woman. all these ridiculous thoughts, not sure how I can overcome them at the moment. Believe it or not, I'm a confident person.. just not with these situations. ok enough ranting I guess.
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