Which do I choose??

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2007
Which do I choose??
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Sun, 12-30-2007 - 11:27pm
I have two extremely great guys in my life right now. One makes me feel so sexy and confident, he's great in bed, and I couldn't really ask for more...except he is not willing to have a long distance relationship, and in our profession that will more than likely be inevitable at some point.
The other guy is also a great guy, and we have had an on again off again relationship for almost a year, however, he has now informed me that he is ready to commit. I'm scared to give him a chance because I finally feel like I have moved on from him by meeting guy A, but I also want to give him a chance because he really means a lot to me.
I would love to be with guy A, but I have a feeling that the second I get attached, we will be separated and it will be over. What should I do???
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Mon, 12-31-2007 - 8:54am

When guy B said that he is ready to commit, does that mean a monogamous AND exclusive relationship?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Mon, 12-31-2007 - 4:37pm
If you're not ready to make a commitment, why force yourself to
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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2007
Tue, 01-01-2008 - 11:48am

Its normal to be nervous, but