we have been friends with benefits..but
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we have been friends with benefits..but
| Tue, 01-01-2008 - 6:37pm |
we have been friends with benefits for about a month and i am just wondering, can it ever be more than that?

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From everything you've just said it seems like he's getting attached to you. Unless you're under 25 yrs old, this whole thing of being friends w/ benefits doesn't make sense to me though. You have sex with someone because you want them. There's definitely some feelings involved.. why not ask him and get an answer?
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Friends with benefits means that you actually LIKE the person and want to spend time with them doing things besides having sex (as opposed to a booty call)--but it stops short of being a relationship with any sort of expectations or commitments beyond what the two of you agree on (for instance, FWB partners can agree to be sexually monogamous).
Eek, he is your BOSS? What do you value more, your job or your FWB arrangement with him???
Can you quit your job?
But are FWB suppose to experience those "couple-like" arguments and issues?
I know with a previous FWB when things went sour I went south and in that situation, he thought of me as more the GF type when I boxed him in as a FWB guy. I've otherwise never experienced GF/BF like argument with a FWB person.
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