what happened?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2008
what happened?
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Thu, 01-03-2008 - 3:00pm
on December 15th, I posted an ad on craigslist and got several responses...on in particular caught my eye, I responded to him and we exchanged e-mails then text messages every night.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2007
In reply to: beccab2008
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 6:36pm

Try not to worry so much.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: beccab2008
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 6:51pm

Why couldnt he use someone else's phone?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: beccab2008
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 7:31pm
Craig list is a scam. That site is the worst to look for men with serious intentions. As for your guy, he's probably married or dating someone else. I wouldn't wait for him, as you could be waiting for a long time. A man who misplaces his phone and disappears for days is NOT someone you can trust.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2006
In reply to: beccab2008
Fri, 01-04-2008 - 11:19am

It's always nice to have guys give you compliments and you should cherish those, but in that same vein his actions in this case are saying something different. If guys have not even met yet and he isn't following through with what he says, it's probably not going to get better if you do meet. However, being that it is the holidays and things are stressful, maybe give him the benefit of the doubt once. But if the behavior continues, I would chalk it up to experience and let him go.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2006
In reply to: beccab2008
Fri, 01-04-2008 - 6:40pm
He evidently he is not as interested in you as you are to him.