What should I do now?

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Registered: 01-05-2008
What should I do now?
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Sat, 01-05-2008 - 5:30pm




Edited 1/10/2008 3:25 pm ET by amy_189
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Registered: 11-10-2007
Sat, 01-05-2008 - 6:54pm

"He texted me that night saying that he wasn't avoiding. he added "just scared, which is normal." I didn't respond, and I haven't heard from him in several days.


Do you feel you can call him and talk to him on the phone and ask him what he is so scared of?

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Registered: 01-05-2008
Sat, 01-05-2008 - 7:29pm

I don't think I want to call him right now. But I think he meant that he's scared of committing to another relationship. Maybe he's scared of getting hurt again because the other girl broke up with him.

I'm not sure that I asked too much, but maybe it was too soon. That girl broke up with him like 2 weeks before and then I asked him if he wanted to be in a relationship with me and he couldn't answer.

I just don't think it would be a good idea to ask about relationships right now. But I wonder if it would be a bad idea to just send him a short message just saying hi at some point.

Thanks for your help!

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Registered: 11-10-2007
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 3:33pm

I dont see why you cant call to say hi.


I didnt know that the other girl broke up with him.