I think you might be reading way too much into what he said. You were looking for a specific answer and when he didn't give you the answer you were hoping for you started to doubt things. This is about you and your expectations, not him.
>>>>A part of me was hoping, though, that he'd say "I'd be devestated" or something like that. I don't know. What does everyone think about this?? Am I overreacting? Could he possibly care more, but is not showing it? <<<<<
The above comment is all about your expectations of how he should answer you. You asked the question, if you don't want the answer don't ask. He was probably being truthful from the place he is right now. Drop the expectations of how he should answer your questions, otherwise you will drive yourself nuts.
Your questions to him make you sound very insecure and if you stay on that track that is the quickest way to lose him.. Relax and just let things happen naturally.
I think you might be reading way too much into what he said. You were looking for a specific answer and when he didn't give you the answer you were hoping for you started to doubt things. This is about you and your expectations, not him.
>>>>A part of me was hoping, though, that he'd say "I'd be devestated" or something like that. I don't know. What does everyone think about this?? Am I overreacting? Could he possibly care more, but is not showing it? <<<<<
The above comment is all about your expectations of how he should answer you. You asked the question, if you don't want the answer don't ask. He was probably being truthful from the place he is right now. Drop the expectations of how he should answer your questions, otherwise you will drive yourself nuts.
Your questions to him make you sound very insecure and if you stay on that track that is the quickest way to lose him.. Relax and just let things happen naturally.
Good luck,
YG
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YG
http://twodatediva.blogspot.com/
I know you are in your early twenties and now is a good time to learn a lesson that all of us older gals have also learned the hard way: