Have you ever . . .

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Registered: 05-05-2004
Have you ever . . .
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Wed, 01-09-2008 - 5:31pm

just taken the bull by the horns and contacted a guy to say something like, "It's pretty obvious you're no longer interested in staying in touch/getting together/making this work so let's just call it a day and move on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2006
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 6:02pm

I've never done that because I was always too proud to let a guy know that I cared enough to be mad about him ghosting.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2007
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 6:06pm
I had to think about this one.
KRISTIE
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 6:06pm

Only if we had some sort of relationship or commitment that I felt bound by regardless of his behavior.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 7:04pm
Yes, I have done that and men have thought I was playing a game of hard to get or coy or something.