Is it too late?

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Registered: 11-12-2007
Is it too late?
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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 4:31pm
Creepygrl
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: creepygrl
Thu, 01-10-2008 - 5:01pm

I can't remember which other board you posted this one but I agreed with the response you got--that you shouldn't be the only one carrying the conversation.

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Registered: 10-14-1999
In reply to: creepygrl
Thu, 01-10-2008 - 5:31pm

the thing about 'protecting yourself' from getting hurt is that it does NOT work - all you really succeed in doing is getting MORE hurt - because you withold feelings, wants, etc and project unexpressed expectations instead. Stuff comes in but nothing goes out - so eventually you get

Toni

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Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: creepygrl
Fri, 01-11-2008 - 11:28am
No, it is not too late to have more open conversation.