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What's a girl to do?
| Tue, 01-22-2008 - 9:29pm |
I really need some advice here. I am a 29 year old career oriented female. I do not have children nor do I want children. I have recently started dating this guy whom has a 15 month old. He did not marry the girl because she started talking to another guy etc. The thing is we get along so well, have the same interest, same outlook on life, great chemistry etc. Its just that I am in school and work 2 jobs and when I am off I like to go and do things. Right now he has his baby 3 nights and week and since we have been dating he never invites me over when he has her. But when shes not there and he's lonely he wants to go out constantly. He calls me when she goes to sleep. I just have this horrible feeling. I do not like being tied down with someone elses

I'm sure there are other guys out there with whom you could enjoy long talks.
Toni
i agree with toni 100%
he and his kid is a package deal, the kid comes before you and as wonderful as i'm sure you are, he cannot choose you over it (he/she?). if you don't see yourself with a kid any time soon, and are against the idea of being tied down to someone else's then you're just going to have to chalk this up to bad luck. regardless you need to talk to him and express your concerns.
best of luck.