What does he want?

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Registered: 01-12-2008
What does he want?
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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 10:04pm

Hello everyone. I have posted here several times and I appreciate everyone's advice. I have an update on my situation. Here's a little background. My ex and I dated for almost 9 years off and on. I am 30 and he is 35. We have been broke up for 7 months now. We were engaged to be married last December. I broke it off. I dated other people. He
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Registered: 02-05-2008
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 1:46am

Hi vanillasmoothie21,


there are a lot of red flags in your post.

 
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Registered: 02-22-2008
Sat, 02-23-2008 - 12:40pm

i have to say, if he really wants to work things out then y is he still w the 19 yr old girl plus dont u think it's kind of weird for a 35 to be w a 19-their mentally must be so far apart she is not even legal to drink unless she is an extremely mature person at 19 i cant see what they would have in common...anyhow, for him to first say that he wants to work things out then add a let's work on the "friendship" first-u guys have been together for 9 yrs on and off i would imagine the friendship is always there, it;s the relationship that u guys need to work on not the friendship, but the first step for him is to end his relationship w the other girl if he wants to focus on having a relationship with

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Registered: 02-05-2008
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 2:33pm

Hi Vanillasmoothie21,


I'm going to be harsh here, but...he's growing his ego with this 19 year old.