He's the one!

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Registered: 10-09-2007
He's the one!
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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 11:21am

In 2006 I dated a guy. At first I wasn't sure if I even liked him. But the more we were together the more I liked him. After several weeks he took me to a quince for a family friend of his and that night I fell in love with him. That night I knew he was "the one" I would be with for the rest of my life.


Here's my background. I am a young 42 year old professional with 3 kids, 10, 15 & 20 years old. I own my own house I live a good life. I've was married and now divorced 6 years.


Here's his back ground. He is 43 years old. Worked his current job for 10 years with one son who is 19 years old. Divorced 16 years ago. Only one serious relationship since the divorce with some casual relationships here and there.


Just letting you know we are both stable and normal. LOL


We knew each other in high school but we hung in different crowds. We were always friendly with each other. Our children went to the same daycare but I was married then, again always friendly with each other.


Flash to 2006. He pursued me for about 8 months. I agreed to meet him at a local sports bar. I almost didn't show. Over the next two months I liked what I saw in him. I slowly let him in. I was still unsure the night I went with him to the quince. I don't know what happened but we were slow dancing and boom it hit me. "He's the one" I just knew it. Here's the thing. I have NEVER felt this. Not for any man in my life. Not even my ex-husband. I was shocked and worried that this feeling was not real. From that moment on my personality changed. Over the next several weeks I felt differently. I guess I did the typical girl thing and pushed. I worried. I waited. I was anxious. Of course we all know that men sense this and he did the typical thing and told me "He just didn't feel the same about me." He said "He feels that it should be the drop down on your

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2008
In reply to: kaswid
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 12:54pm

Welcome to the broad from your new CL


 
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: kaswid
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 5:44pm

I dont know what to tell you because I have never been in your shoes.