Major dilemma, what to do?

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Major dilemma, what to do?
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Sun, 02-17-2008 - 2:46am

I have a major dilemma in the works.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 1:23pm

It sounds like you know what to do...just take things day by day as you have been doing.

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Registered: 08-11-2004
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 1:56pm
You should be extremely slow and cautious about this new relationship. A person who's just ended a relationship is at a high risk of ending up in a rebound relationship that isn't going to last, and it's complicated by the fact that you're both in the midst of getting divorced. I wouldn't say that the relationship is doomed by any means, just don't rush into anything serious too quickly. It's a very good sign that you were friends before and have known each other as long as you have. Starting out as friends can be very good for a relationship, but only time will tell if it's going to become long term or not.