You all are awesome...thank you so much for your input, truly.
Let's see....trust....the trust issues I have re the current bf is related mostly to his ability to provide stability and have his financial wits about him.
Ok, I agree with snafu in that you do not know rebound guy well enough REALLY know KNOW that he'd be compatible with you in the long term ... you know the surface level ... it SEEMS like he'd be a good provider, etc etc ... but, you didn't have an extensive enough relationship with him to even put him in the equation.
So, this is easy ... take him out of the equation.
What you REALLY need to be doing is evaluating your current relationship and decide whether or not he is the man for you ... independent of RB guy.
"but I am talking strictly of his ability to develop this business sense."
Sorry, but there are some things in life you either got it or you dont - instincts, talents, sense or smarts...either you got it or you dont.
"What else I like about the rebound......*smile*, he is very well read, an intellectual equal with conversations, shares the same beliefs I do (ie Heaven & Hell), and is very very supportive.
You didnt date mr. rebound long enough to tell if the song and dance he was performing for you was real or not --- so be very careful.
Hi Snafu~~~
I am an EXTREMELY skeptical girly when it comes to guys.
"lacks an ability to be consistent with managing his business, to the point he has almost had to declare bankruptcy and other financial 'traumas'.
Welcome to the board.
You all are awesome...thank you so much for your input, truly.
Let's see....trust....the trust issues I have re the current bf is related mostly to his ability to provide stability and have his financial wits about him.
Ok, I agree with snafu in that you do not know rebound guy well enough REALLY know KNOW that he'd be compatible with you in the long term ... you know the surface level ... it SEEMS like he'd be a good provider, etc etc ... but, you didn't have an extensive enough relationship with him to even put him in the equation.
So, this is easy ... take him out of the equation.
What you REALLY need to be doing is evaluating your current relationship and decide whether or not he is the man for you ... independent of RB guy.
"but I am talking strictly of his ability to develop this business sense."
Sorry, but there are some things in life you either got it or you dont - instincts, talents, sense or smarts...either you got it or you dont.
"What else I like about the rebound......*smile*, he is very well read, an intellectual equal with conversations, shares the same beliefs I do (ie Heaven & Hell), and is very very supportive.