Celebration time, but then her comes mil
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| Wed, 10-18-2006 - 3:57pm |
^_^ Hi everyone!! I've just come back from the doctor yesterday and it seems that I will be having a baby girl!! I'm 17 weeks and 6 days now and I'm very excited!! Her name will be Alexandria Aaliyah-Marie, and I know she'll be cute from what I could make out of the sonogram profile of her face. In all the excitement comes the downside, my future mil and her schemes..again. ( Note: I'll be married next month)
I would've figured by now that she would give it up with trying to convince my future hubby to live with her, having one of his ex's call our house the next day after moving in to the new place (which she gave the number to her). Now she gave out the house number again to another ex. My future hubby does not want to talk to any old flames whatsoever, so why does she insist on giving out the number? Because she's a hateful old witch that's why. Remember how I said she works herself up to be sick and also pretends to be sick so my future hubby can baby her? Well now she really is sick, and now she calls at all times of the morning wanting to talk to him and trying to get him to come over and stay til the next day, which is a no-no. He's not interested in staying over there for long periods of time for visits anyway.
Now all of a sudden she tells him that she wants a relationship with me...lol Constantly asks about me, etc even trying to be nicer on the phone when she asks for him. I've seen this pattern too many times to know she is full of it once again. Honestly, she just had another ex call my house 2 days ago and now this... a relationship with me..yeah right. Also, now she's all of a sudden interested in our baby, which she was horribly against not too long ago. My instincts have yet to be wrong and I get the feeling she's up to no good..again.

I am so happy for you! Congrats on your baby girl! My baby girl, Samara Natalie,will be two in Jan and all I can say is, it's gone by so quickly! Take lots of pictures the moment she is born! We take photos of Samara every month, and she loves to look back at herself as a baby.
I hope you MIL isn't stressing you out too much...
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Thanks Liz!! ^_^ It's true that the ball is indeed in my court now and with all the mess and drama that this woman has been doing, I don't want to bounce the ball back to her side of the court. I've thought about it long and hard for quite a while, and it's not even worth getting into a relationship with her..the results will come back the same time and time again. Sad to say, but I really don't have the energy or the time to deal with her anymore. The weird thing is she knows I want nothing to do with her, and yet now she keeps asking as if I'll change my mind, which will not happen..ever. When it comes to my little girl, mil will get to see her, but I will definitely be there on those occasions simply because I don't trust the woman. My future hubby, baby girl and I will visit as a family..my child will never be there without me in that house. Is everything going okay with you? ^_^
Thanks for thinking of me :)
Hi Frederique2006, welcome to the board!!
Congratulations on your pregnancy!
Maybe you should change your phone number and you and FDH need not give the # to MIL.
Sounds like your MIL is a manipulator and she is only looking for what's in it for her. If it were me, I would stay clear of her.
Keep us posted on the baby!!!
^_^ Thanks everyone for the advice!! I spoke with future hubby and said that we need to get a new home phone that is not listed this time, and a new cell phone that was originally apart of a family plan between him and his family for years now. He said he will be giving that phone back and getting a new one. Good!! I told him to give only the new cell phone number to his mom, but not the house phone. He also will tell her yet again about not giving it out to unwanted people. I told him that if this mess happens again I will be dealing directly with her seeing as he's handling her with kid gloves. I know that everyone child is partial to their parents, but she needs to be put into her place once and for all, and actually that time will be coming up very soon since we will be going to his Godparents, who have been just fantastic to me, the first weekend of November. I'll finally get to see the hateful witch face to face. So, how's everyone else doing? I hope you are doing very well. ^_^