What should I do?!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2006
What should I do?!
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Wed, 10-25-2006 - 2:38pm
He has a big family and he ALWAYS takes their side over mine, no matter how rational and true my side is. They all hate me and I don't know what to do about it. They never tried to get to know the real me and they talk about me behind my back and say rude things to me when my guy is in another room and can't hear it. When I tell him that one of them did something rude to me, he will not confront them. He acts like he dosen't care. I think a relationship should feel like a team and the he should stick up for me to his family.
On top of that, they just moved 30 minutes away and now he wants to go see them all the time, I don't feel welcome at their new place. I also have trust issues with him because he lied to me alot. I don't want him to go by himself because I know his family and friends would cover for him if he ever did anything bad. Should I go with him and just sit around getting dirty looks from his family or should he go by himself while I am at home wondering what he is up to? For all I know, he could be going other places and saying he's at his family's house. What am I to do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-09-2006
Wed, 10-25-2006 - 5:58pm
What are you to do? Seriously sit down and reconsider why you want a guy who you can't/don't trust and who clearly lets you know that you will never be his number one. Then decide if you want to VOLUNTEER to be a hostage to that life. And finally, do not get an alligator when you want a furry purring pet. KWIM?

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 10-25-2006 - 7:58pm

What should you do? Run for the hills! Then find out why you think you *deserve* to be treated so badly, and find a *healthy* relationship. That's my opinion.

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