Tell in-laws re husband's debt?
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Tell in-laws re husband's debt?
| Tue, 11-21-2006 - 2:26pm |
I'd like some opinions. My husband is a loser - he cheated on me while pregnant 3 years ago and supposedly was trying to working things out. I sense he's up to something again but I can't prove it. However, I did recently learn that he has racked up $40k in credit card debt since January. In January he had also received a loan at a low interest rate for $70k from his parents to help him get on his feet after he spent again. I'm ready to file for divorce and wondered if you think I should call my in-laws to tell them about the debt? They will be devastated. My hope is that he will be motivated by them to pay down the $100k in debt (which I am liable for according to state law) before I file for divorce. At this point, I don't think there's any chance of saving the marriage. Any thoughts?

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Hi Chelsel, welcome!
Do you think that telling his parents will help? Do you think that they are going to help him pay down the debt when they find out about it? If not, then telling them may be causing more trouble, possibly.
As far as what you are liable for, I think the best thing to do is to consult with an attorney regarding your rights and what you may or may not be liable for.