Always offending SIL
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| Thu, 12-28-2006 - 1:40pm |
I have 3 somewhat decent Sons-in-laws. J is married to my oldest dd Mandy & father to my dgd Miss Lucy. C is married my middle witch dd Nicole & father to gs Nathan (who we have never meet) & D is married to my physco dd Rachel. Both J & C are both alcoholics & problems with drugs (I think my oldest dd could be an alcholoic as well & both of the two older girls use pot) C is a orphan and other then a uncle is alone in the world with the exception of my dd & gd. J's mom passed away just a couple of weeks before Lucy turned 1. And there lays the problems, both dh & I seem to be saying things that keep offending him. I will tease Lucy " you come here to your bestes grandma" not thinking about his mom and he starts complaining to my dd that I've offended him again. Until right around Halloween nothing had been said to us about we offended him again, but she tells me this~~I'm in a very pissy mode that day & told her he need to grow a couple and grow up. I don't come running to her all of the times he's ruined the holidays here at our house when he gets drunk or starts fights with her. (and yes I've asked them to leave a couple of times because of his behavior)and so I blasted her & told her off for all of the crap that he has put me thru. She came back with my new dh is a child molester (not true) and we didn't talk or have any contract until the first part of December when my dd bd came & I had gifts for her. I had asked them to dinner on Christmas eve or Christmas day. Was told no to both of these request, but dd did bring Lucy over for gifts. I had gotten the kids a marigita set (pitcher & 6 glasses) and stuff for the baby. I ended telling dd that the gift was just for her not sil and left it at that. Of course there was no gift from them to me/us. We don't expect them to give us gifts anymore. But she always tells me what she gave her dad & sisters. Nice huh? Yea, well whatever. I just got a im from J, he's all ticked off at me again for not giving him a gift as well. I pointed out that I haven't received any kind of gifts from them in a very long time. So what~~and I reminded him that I had been watching the baby for them for 7 months for free and had saved them of between 4200 to 6000 by me watching her and them not having to pay for daycare. So now here we go again. He's acting like a spoilt brat again. I've offended him once again. BOO HOO. Geezs.
Sam
| Thu, 12-28-2006 - 7:30pm |
