I simply can't believe this!!
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| Sat, 12-30-2006 - 9:30pm |
^_^ Hello again ladies!! How are you all doing? I hope you are all doing well.
OMG, the monster-in-law is actually acting a bigger fool, if that's at all possible, than she was before. She's even got the fil to act up with her. My hubby will be over to their house tommorrow to deal with this, and they will not like what he's going to say from the impression he gave me. Oh well, they have it coming anyway. Get this: the monster-in-law and fil are upset because I refuse to have a relationship with her. If you repeatedly get bitten by a snake, then common sense will tell you to stay away from it and be wary of it. I've been suckered by her 'nice act' only for it to turn back to evil time and time again. There's no way I'm going to be stupid enough to knowingly walk back into drama and be put through more hell from a woman who isn't even the least bit sorry for what's she done. Now the fil is trying to be upset and wants to 'talk' with my husband, well he's in for a rude awakening for that conversation. I'm allowing her to visit with the child at our home, so what more does she want? It seems that she's still up to stirring up trouble to get what she wants again. It takes two for a relationship to get started and for it to work. You can't force a relationship if only one person (her) wants it. I simply don't trust her and definitely don't want a relationship with her. I'll be nice, respectful as always, but that's all she getting from me. She's had plenty of chances to stop causing trouble, and didn't stop it, thus destroying any chances of a possible relationship between us. She just won't accept the way I feel and leave well enough alone. One day, understanding will come to her..I hope :P

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Hi Frederique2006, welcome to the board!
How did the conversation between your husband and his parents go? They need to understand their behavior and how it affects you and that is the way it is going to be (they way you are reacting to what they have done/said). They really don't have much of a choice but to "get it," if you keep acting the same way towards them they will HAVE TO get it, in my opinion.