Would you be upset?

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Would you be upset?
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Tue, 01-23-2007 - 6:06pm
Long story short, DH has 2 children with another woman, one that was conceived because he cheated on me and we seperated. So my MIL knew this woman for like...6 months? DH and I have been back together for over a year now, and I swear her and this woman are like best buds! Thank God she lives almost 4 hours away or I bet they'de be together ALL the time. Would this tick you off?? I can only imagine what MIL says to her about us!
Also, recent unfortunant circumstances have seen us living with MIL....which is a whole issue in itself! Ugh...ok, so I can see her having pictures of her other grandchildren in the house..fine, but this other woman??? WTH? She just put another one up either last night or today while I was gone, and I'm not happy about it! Am I overreacting, or is this overstepping bounderies? I think my MIL is nuts in the first place, and we've had our problems, but I feel like she'd rather have this OW as her DIL than me.
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Registered: 01-23-2007
Tue, 01-23-2007 - 6:54pm
Wow...just...wow. I would be MORE than upset if I was in your situation. What does your husband think?
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Registered: 01-25-2007
Thu, 01-25-2007 - 4:05pm
i would be sooooooooo upset talk to her now!!!!!!!
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Registered: 03-31-2003
Thu, 01-25-2007 - 5:59pm
DH is great. Considering his history with this woman, he does everything in his power to keep me shielded from everything he has to do to deal with her...courts/child support. So needless to say this upsets him ALOT and I told him that HE is going to have to deal with his mother about this, it's not my responsibility. So, we'll see what happenes!
Thanks you guys, I feel a little more sane. :)