Oh amber! I am sorry.. I didnt realize your husband was SUCH a sissy! I dont know what to say. You will have to calm down and wait for your husband to calm down before you talk to him again about this. Let him come back and dont talk about it for a couple of days. Give yourselves a good 2 days before you broach the topic with him again. You are not wrong in demanding to know where your son goes. Your MIL is crossing the line bigtime. And your husband is certainly in the wrong here. Your son's welfare and your peace of mind come before indulging in your MIL's whims. He needs to see that. Can you get an appointment with the cousellor for monday? I think that you guys need MAJOR major work, accelerated work to make it through this. See if you can spend a good few hours with the counsellor together and talk this through. It's possible that your husband just isnt ready to be your husband, you know.. It's possible he just can't change. In that case you will have to evaluate whether you can live your life like this, with constant conflict, or whether you can learn to let go, and give in to your MIL, or whether you'd rather fight it alone and be a single mother. In any case, big hugs! I hope you feel better soon and that idiot husband of yours realizes what a mistake he is making.
Make sure you have documented everything that has happened. Get papers you will need in order and make copies if needed and hide them. I also would make sure he doesn't drain the bank accounts and leave you with no money. Protect yourself. Get an attorney quickly. Most will give you a free consultation.
I think that it is sad that he would give up his marriage because his Mommy doesn't always get her way. Because you won't bow down and kiss her rear end. How absolutely pitiful. Throwing your marriage out with both hands because of your mother. He is not a man, honey. A real man wouldn't threaten divorce over his whiny, unreasonable, immature mother. A real man would tell his mother to knock it off, pronto. A real man would put you and the baby, first.
I didnt realize your husband was SUCH a sissy! I dont know what to say. You will have to calm down and wait for your husband to calm down before you talk to him again about this. Let him come back and dont talk about it for a couple of days. Give yourselves a good 2 days before you broach the topic with him again.
You are not wrong in demanding to know where your son goes. Your MIL is crossing the line bigtime. And your husband is certainly in the wrong here. Your son's welfare and your peace of mind come before indulging in your MIL's whims. He needs to see that.
Can you get an appointment with the cousellor for monday? I think that you guys need MAJOR major work, accelerated work to make it through this. See if you can spend a good few hours with the counsellor together and talk this through.
It's possible that your husband just isnt ready to be your husband, you know.. It's possible he just can't change. In that case you will have to evaluate whether you can live your life like this, with constant conflict, or whether you can learn to let go, and give in to your MIL, or whether you'd rather fight it alone and be a single mother.
In any case, big hugs! I hope you feel better soon and that idiot husband of yours realizes what a mistake he is making.
Make sure you have documented everything that has happened. Get papers you will need in order and make copies if needed and hide them. I also would make sure he doesn't drain the bank accounts and leave you with no money. Protect yourself. Get an attorney quickly. Most will give you a free consultation.
I think that it is sad that he would give up his marriage because his Mommy doesn't always get her way. Because you won't bow down and kiss her rear end. How absolutely pitiful. Throwing your marriage out with both hands because of your mother. He is not a man, honey. A real man wouldn't threaten divorce over his whiny, unreasonable, immature mother. A real man would tell his mother to knock it off, pronto. A real man would put you and the baby, first.
Good luck to you.