How do you deal with this woman???
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| Mon, 02-05-2007 - 12:16am |
I have a serious question for everyone? How do you deal with a mother-in-law that does not care about her own son but will take the side of a step-daughter over her own flesh and blood? The step-daughter has made my husbands life a living hell so to speak and he is having to fight the legal system and has been arrested because of her numerious times over this. A few months ago, her step-daughter confessed to her and her father that she had made up the lie to get my husband in trouble and they will not let the cops know. They keep saying that it will work it's self out over time. My husband is facing 2 to 20 years in jail over this. The only time we hear from her is when they need to borrow money and then it is about money and her stupid dogs that she breeds. She never asked how my husband is doing or how I am doing since I am due with their granddaughter any day? I really need some advise because my husband is saying as of right now he does not have a mother over this. Do I go along with this, because he will not be back home until at least August of this year. Any advise would be apprectiated.
Thank You.
Tammie

Does your husband have a good attorney? That is the first concern!
If his mother is siding with this other person, even though it means that her son would be falsely imprisoned, then your husband has the right idea.
If she'd allow that to happen to her son, there is no telling what she would do to you and your baby. Do you have people nearby that have shown themselves to be trustworthy? Or can you go to your family 'till the baby is born?
Please be careful with those people.
I wish you the very best, take care of yourself and that baby.
ilve2read
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You need to tell the attorney that they know she is a liar!! The attorney needs to explain Perjury and FIling a False Police Report are BOTH FELONY CRIMES!!!!
Hopefully they mentioned this fact to someone other than yourself & your spouse. IF so Let your attorney know that.
Contact the lead investigator in your husband's case and along with your attorney, let them know what the Evil Inlaws told you and let them know that you are willing to get the conversation recorded if they can help. Also let the Prosecutors Office know what is going on.
DOCUMENT EVERYTHING - TIME/DATE/DURATION of Calls & Contacts, Letters, Emails, List who is present the location of contact (even if they just bump into you). Try to keep a detailed transcript of any and all conversations. Check with your attorney about the laws in your area regarding the recording of phone conversations and inperson conversations in your state/locality. If you are allowed to then find a way to record any calls from them and if for same strange reason calls to them.
Also have your attorney write a CERTIFIED LETTER to them stating that due to the fact that there is a pending case until it is resolved there is to be NO CONTACT what so ever between the parties. Also have them mention that Monies Are NOT TO BE EXCHANGED As You Need it for a legal defense and to raise your baby, as they are not willing to come forward with the truth of the situation. Oh yes mention to that until this is resolved the no contact includes the baby. THey have no right to see this angel when they are being so evil. You might want to wait on this until after you and the attorney contact the police and prosecutor.
Good Luck
Frances
Proud Wife & SAHM
Hi firefighter_mom, welcome!
I agree with Mom2danjam and cl-mugalug. He doesn't have a mother worth her salt would sell out their own flesh and blood like that. I agree that his family needs to be cut off completely and there is no need for any contact whatsoever. They need not know about your upcoming baby. Personally, there is no reason for them to know. It would be one more thing for them to cause drama and potential trouble over.
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