Maybe this is it.......

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Registered: 12-21-2006
Maybe this is it.......
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Wed, 02-14-2007 - 6:57pm
Ok,I was thinking about inlaws and how they first
like you.......Maybe thats becuz they don't know
you.... Then they think they know you and base
judgement on what they think or maybe even what
they are told be it true or the half truth or all
out lies. I think that if your not true blood you
will always me made to feel unwelcome and no matter
what you'll always be damed if you do and damed if
you don't.
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 3:21pm

Hello,


I have to disagree with that. I get a long very well with my husband's family.


~Lisa

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 11-17-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 9:01pm

I'm sure that some families *are* like that. There have been a few on these boards that sounded that way. Thank goodness not all of them are!!

ilve2read

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Fri, 02-16-2007 - 10:33am

I totally agree with you broken07. I remember when IL were so nice and we were all happy when DH & I were dating, but as soon as we got married everything when downhill. I avoid seeing them to not start anything because they are all DRAMA. DH has been supportive but even he can't be around them for too long either. I do sometimes wish we could all just get along and be that happy family everyone else talks about. But MIL is paranoid, FIL has no say so, and SIL is crazy. LOL!

angel_shell

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Registered: 10-11-2005
Fri, 02-16-2007 - 4:01pm

In-laws~~MIL doesn't like me because I took her traveling pal way from her & BIL is a know it all & I don't like the way he treats either dh or MIL (he acts like he's the older sibling, dh is~~as I am, I told my young sister is she EVER acted like that I would Witch slap her into her place so fast~~she thought I was making it up until she meet BIL, and she took me aside and told she would deserve that slap if she treated me that way)

Sam

~~Sam stitches well with others, runs with scissors in her pocket. Cheerful and stupid.
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Registered: 12-21-2006
Mon, 02-19-2007 - 2:02pm
I am happy to hear that you get along
well with you il's. I thought this board
was for problems with Il's. I'm confused.
My post was going out to those who don't
get along with IL's,Bil's,SIL's ect.
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Registered: 12-21-2006
Mon, 02-19-2007 - 2:25pm
I am the same way. Don't talk to them.
Rarely even answer the phone if they
call. I have learned not to tell them
anything. One time I told the SIL that
my dd was lost in walmart and I had to
get help from people that worked there
to find her which took all of 3 min. to
find her. I told her this after she told
me that she had lost her son in a store.
He got much further away from her than my
dd did. So she calls up the MIL and tells
them that they had to shut down walmart,the
police were called and it took 2 hours to find
her. I'm thinking that if the situation had
been that bad the police would have forced me
to notify my husband. If I do ever answer the
phone when they call I keep it short and only
talk about things that can't be twisted up like
the weather. I am very glad we live far away from
them.