He is *such* a liar!!!

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He is *such* a liar!!!
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Thu, 02-26-2004 - 12:45pm
Oh, he's such a JERK!!! Remember my post from the other day when I said he had called me again? Well, during that phone call, he stated that he had done two of the three things I asked of him; the first being getting counseling, the second being quitting the pot smoking 100%; and the third being getting rid of his gun. He said the *only* thing he hadn't done was to get rid of his gun.

Well, I had to stop at the house today to take care of my dog while STBXH is at work. I saw a *full* pipe in his dresser! (Yes, I was snooping -- I wanted to know if he was telling me the truth or not.) Well, since it's in the dresser, I know that it's his, because his roommate wouldn't store stuff in STBXH's dresser. Even if the pipe hadn't been full, he would *still* be a liar because he told me he had gotten rid of *all* of his paraphernalia!

I just can't believe that, even after all this, he continues to lie to me! What the hell does he think he's going to get out of it?!?! I've already made it more than clear that we're not, no way, no how EVER getting back together, so what does he think he's trying to prove?!?! At this point, I don't give a sh!t if he smokes pot every minute of every day if he wants to. It no longer makes any difference to me. But, yet, he continues to lie about it. WHY?!?! What a total a$$hole!

Sorry . . . just needed to vent.

~Emm

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Thu, 02-26-2004 - 1:03pm

I'm sorry, Emm.

CL-Blueliner4

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Thu, 02-26-2004 - 1:18pm
Yeah, Blue, how about one of those hockey sticks, huh? I guess they can do a good bit of damage and besides -- hockey is his favorite sport! How would that be for bitter irony?!?! ;oP

No, I haven't said anything to him about finding the pipe, and I don't plan to. But, if I ever have the *great* misfortune of speaking to him again, and he starts whining about how he's done everything I've asked him to do, blah-blah-blah, I may just throw that in his face. I'm going to try not to, but I'm not sure what's gonna happen if he starts his sh!t again. It's just getting *really* old, and I'm not sure how much more I can take.

Love & Hugs,

Emm

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Thu, 02-26-2004 - 1:43pm
I have said that a million times, "I don't know how much more I can take". I found that I was able to "take" a lot...:)

Being a survivor is not easy, at least it wasn't for me. I didn't get "over it" until I started doing things to occupy and take care of myself, and made him and his life and his actions my "lowest" priority.

You are so strong...chin up.

Sarah
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Thu, 02-26-2004 - 1:58pm
Thank you, Sarah, and you're right -- I need to make him the *very last* thing on my priority list. It's just soooo hard to do that when he's been the *very first* thing on that list for so long . . . but I'll get there, don't worry. In fact, he's already *much* further down the list than he thinks he is! ;o}

Love & Hugs,

Emm

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Thu, 02-26-2004 - 1:59pm
Wow, these guys never cease to amaze me, not one bit.
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Thu, 02-26-2004 - 2:29pm
Thanks, Wishful. I know how you feel -- it really irks me, too, that my dog has to deal with that crap. He has allergies, too, so you'd think STBXH would take that into consideration, but nooooooo -- *nothing* is more important to him than getting high.

So, I'll be moving my dog out of there and into my boyfriend's house no later than March 31, but I'd like to try to do it sooner. I'm hoping to have him out of there by mid-March. This will be easier on Caesar (my dog) and also on me, because I will no longer have to go back to that sh!thole of a house to take care of him! I won't have to see STBXH's things, and see what he's done (or *hasn't* done!) with the house we used to share. It was beautiful when I lived there, but it's just gone to pot (pun *definitely* intended - LOL!) since I left back in October.

So, you're right, he can just kill himself with the drugs -- I'm outta there!!! And pretty soon, my pup will be, too, so I'll have no reason to ever go back. Wow, will that ever be a relief! :oD

Love & Hugs,

Emm

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Thu, 02-26-2004 - 2:41pm
Amen to that sistah.
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Thu, 02-26-2004 - 2:50pm
Hee-hee-hee!!! I bet he and Bubba would get along GREAT!!! I can just see it now . . . he'd start blaming Bubba for everything that's gone wrong in his life, and I'm pretty sure Bubba wouldn't take too well to that! ;oD

Love & Hugs,

Emm

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Thu, 02-26-2004 - 3:20pm
I think bubba would hit on him!!!! Hahaha ;)

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