He is *such* a liar!!!
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| Thu, 02-26-2004 - 12:45pm |
Well, I had to stop at the house today to take care of my dog while STBXH is at work. I saw a *full* pipe in his dresser! (Yes, I was snooping -- I wanted to know if he was telling me the truth or not.) Well, since it's in the dresser, I know that it's his, because his roommate wouldn't store stuff in STBXH's dresser. Even if the pipe hadn't been full, he would *still* be a liar because he told me he had gotten rid of *all* of his paraphernalia!
I just can't believe that, even after all this, he continues to lie to me! What the hell does he think he's going to get out of it?!?! I've already made it more than clear that we're not, no way, no how EVER getting back together, so what does he think he's trying to prove?!?! At this point, I don't give a sh!t if he smokes pot every minute of every day if he wants to. It no longer makes any difference to me. But, yet, he continues to lie about it. WHY?!?! What a total a$$hole!
Sorry . . . just needed to vent.
~Emm

I'm sorry, Emm.
CL-Blueliner4
No, I haven't said anything to him about finding the pipe, and I don't plan to. But, if I ever have the *great* misfortune of speaking to him again, and he starts whining about how he's done everything I've asked him to do, blah-blah-blah, I may just throw that in his face. I'm going to try not to, but I'm not sure what's gonna happen if he starts his sh!t again. It's just getting *really* old, and I'm not sure how much more I can take.
Love & Hugs,
Emm
Being a survivor is not easy, at least it wasn't for me. I didn't get "over it" until I started doing things to occupy and take care of myself, and made him and his life and his actions my "lowest" priority.
You are so strong...chin up.
Sarah
Love & Hugs,
Emm
So, I'll be moving my dog out of there and into my boyfriend's house no later than March 31, but I'd like to try to do it sooner. I'm hoping to have him out of there by mid-March. This will be easier on Caesar (my dog) and also on me, because I will no longer have to go back to that sh!thole of a house to take care of him! I won't have to see STBXH's things, and see what he's done (or *hasn't* done!) with the house we used to share. It was beautiful when I lived there, but it's just gone to pot (pun *definitely* intended - LOL!) since I left back in October.
So, you're right, he can just kill himself with the drugs -- I'm outta there!!! And pretty soon, my pup will be, too, so I'll have no reason to ever go back. Wow, will that ever be a relief! :oD
Love & Hugs,
Emm
Love & Hugs,
Emm
"I am a fighter.