WHY?????

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Registered: 01-15-2004
WHY?????
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Wed, 03-10-2004 - 7:53pm
Why cant i get over him? I am sitting here crying my eyes out and I cant stop. My daughter called to tell him she lost her tooth and crystal answered the phone. He promised me he would stop seeing her and he lied once again. Why do I always fall for it and believe him? I just completly went off on her, told her exactly what i thought of her. I also told her to tell him he will not EVER see the girls so long as he is with her. Why am I so foolish? I cant take anymore. It is killing me to know he is with her right now. I am just so mad, hurt, confused, i just dont know how much more i can take. I have such a great man right now and I can't even give him a fair chance.

I went and saw the DV councelor at the shelter. She went over all my options. I am going to a support group tomarrow night. She is also gonna try and get me assistence to get my own place.I dont think it willl do any good because I am leaving this town ASAP. I can not be in this town with the two of them together. I will go nuts. Christina

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Registered: 11-12-2003
In reply to: girley1219
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 8:06pm

Breathe, Christina!


Okay, first off - you get a gold star for seeing the counselor.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 01-15-2004
In reply to: girley1219
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 9:25pm
Thank you and sorry if i sounded a little hysterical, but I was. It seems like everytime I know they are together or when she answers the phone, my whole body starts to shake and i can't help my mouth. He has told me straight out that he doess it to make me mad and to hurt me. I have decided to ignore his phone calls from now on. I was also supposed to meet him to talk and get our daughters shoes, he called last min and said he had an energency at his moms and he couldnt meet, well he was with her. I can't keep doing this to my self. I am going to have a nervous breakdown before i turn 30.

Th DV advocate was really nice. She herself has had violent relationships so she knows first hand. I was suprised, I felt really comfortable talking to her. They offer a class for kids teaching them about safety and feelings and divorce. I am gonna enroll the girls when I go to group tomarrow night. Christina

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