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| Mon, 03-15-2004 - 3:26pm |
There’s a lot of newer members here on the board that may not know my background, and I think today is a wonderful day to post this, as this is my 18 month freedom anniversary.

Its funny you mention how he HAS to have someone, like co-dependency.
I'm not sure I ever "heard" your entire story - thank you for posting it now. I need to hear that it is ok to leave. I believe that I have been able to stop looking at him. I see that he is not healthy. That these are all his problems and unless he wants to look and see and acknowledge them, then they aren't going away because of me.
So, my fears? Leaving. And then having to deal with him. Comging back to get my stuff, figuring out exactly where I would go. Dealing with so many people who have no clue and won't be understanding. So, I am trying to work on me and how I will handle that. Any suggestions are certainly welcome!
Thank you for sharing your history with us - It does help those of us who aren't sure what to do and if it is ok. (Why DO I feel like I need someone's, anyone's ok to do stuff? I'm certainly not 3 years old!!)
Hugs,
Pam
Ree
I had my degrees thrown in my face, too.
CL-Blueliner4
Trust me, Pam, this is the Cliff Notes version of my story.
CL-Blueliner4
You are most welcome, Ree.
CL-Blueliner4
I would love to be able to enjoy that day with you, my friend.
CL-Blueliner4