I have a question

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2003
I have a question
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Sat, 03-20-2004 - 1:58pm
I am just wondering. I was speaking to my H, over the phone and we were discussing our problems in the marraige. During the conversation I asked him if he felt I was pressuring him to change his jealous and possessive ways. He says in a way yes, that it is a part of who he is. But also, he would change for us and our marraige. So, I really dont know if I can belive him or not. I dont know if I should believe him or not. I really would rather leave his suspicious nature to himself and leave me out of it. What do you think? Any ideas.

strength76 , thanks

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2003
Sat, 03-20-2004 - 2:56pm

Hi there -


I see a big, red warning flag, hon.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 03-20-2004 - 7:14pm
I agree with cl-blueliner...he doesn't see his jealousy and possessiveness as any kind of problem for HIM and it's acceptable to him.

When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

- Maya Angelou