Time to say goodbye. . .
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| Mon, 03-22-2004 - 8:55am |
As for me, I'm in my own process now. I've shared on many occasions that I'm a recovering addict and in doing my 4th step; i.e. taking my own personal inventory, I've spotted so many areas of unmanageability. As so many of you have shared, living with an addict/alcoholic is h#ll on earth. I'm taking responsibility now for much of the damage I did in my relationships with others, and having to own up to my own abusive tendencies. This doesn't mean that all is peachy in my marriage, it means that I do have some work to do on myself before I can truly consider myself the victim of abuse.
I will continue to lurk here because I know the "abuse" that occurred in my marriage is far from over in my mind and heart, whether its what I did to him or what he did to me. There haven't been any episodes of abuse, physical or emotional, between H and I in a very long time and now I need to start the healing.
I've read so much here and have such a better understanding of what abuse is and for that I am thankful. I've learned how to draw boundaries with H, and others, and I've experienced so much growth as a result of everyone here sharing their experiences. Your honesty is compelling and this is a wonderful haven for victims of abuse to support each other. I will still be here reading and keeping you all in my prayers. May God Bless each and every one of you! Love and positive vibes comin' from New Jersey!


You have become part of us and I hope you don't think you do not deserve to post here because you do.
So take the time you need, but always know that you are so welcome here with us. No matter what's going on, whether it's just with yourself or with others, we'd love to hear from you and help you in all matters and parts of your journey.
Stay safe and stay true to yourself.
Hugs
Peace and hugs,
Cheryl =)
The minute you settle for less than you
I agree with Cheryl, Momesq. (I still love that nic! : ))
You belong here as much as any of us. I think that it is healthy to share different opinions here! Hope you will come back and post.
Hugs!
Christine