Worried about my dog!
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| Fri, 03-26-2004 - 9:53am |
So, I told him at that time that I would make arrangements with my Mom to transport Caesar on March 31 in her SUV, and I would e-mail him with the specific time on the 31st that we would be there to pick Caesar up. So, I e-mailed him on Tuesday, telling him that my Mom and I would be there on Wednesday, March 31 at 6:30 p.m. to pick up Caesar and all of his things (bowls, food, toys, medications etc.), and asked him to e-mail me back ASAP to let me know if that time would work or not. He is to have his sister or some other neutral person there to let me into the house (he has already changed the locks, or so he says) and he is not to be there himself (at his *own* suggestion). However, it's now Friday, and he has not e-mailed me back yet. I'm starting to worry, because I checked his e-mail account (he doesn't know that I can do this) and not only has he already read the e-mail, but it was in his "trash" folder, so he deleted it as well. Wednesday is the last day I have to get my dog, according to the Separation Agreement, and I'm starting to worry. Any ideas about what I should do next?
~Emm

I read Tracy's post upstairs, and I agree with her.
CL-Blueliner4
However, I do kinda believe him when he says he has already changed the locks. I don't think he would have said that if he hadn't, because he knows me well enough to know that, if he hadn't changed the locks yet and had no one there to let me in on Wednesday night, I would go in myself anyway. So, when he told me that, I took my old key to the house off my keychain and pitched it! I was glad to be rid of that d@mn thing, anyway!!!
Also, I e-mailed him again today, stating that I wasn't sure if he had received my e-mail of Tuesday or not, and asking him to please respond to this one ASAP so that I know if I can pick Caesar up on Wednesday or not, as planned. I also told him that, if the Wednesday evening thing wouldn't suit him, we could make other plans (i.e. I could come later on Wednesday evening, or sometime over this weekend or early next week to get him). So, if I haven't heard from him by Monday, I'm calling his therapist (who was also my therapist for a good while) and asking her to contact him to mediate the "Caesar Exchange." Maybe she can talk some sense into him. But, if even that gets no results, I'm going to show up at his house at 6:30 Wednesday night, as I suggested in my e-mails, and I'm going to have a copy of all the Caesar-related e-mails I've sent him so far, as well as the Separation Agreement with me. If he's not there (or if he *is* there and refuses to let me have my dog), I'm calling the cops. Even if they can't do anything to help me enforce the Separation Agreement, at least it will be on record that I called them and that he has my dog. I'm telling you, if he acts up again this time, do not pass "go," do not collect $200, the cops *will* be called. I'm done playing his little mind games.
Love,
Emm