very angry

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2003
very angry
1
Mon, 05-10-2004 - 4:57pm
I called the courts today. My ex is taking me back to court to file for custody and child support reduction. Well I called up and told them that I could not make that date can I have it set up on another date. She said no. Why? Why do I have to be inconveniced once again to go to court for my ex? He did not even go the first time and I know it is going to be a waste of time. He is such a pain. I have to work that day and can not take off. The court clerk told me that is not an excuse to get out of it. I am the victim here. He abused me verbally and pshically not to mention that he has done nothing on the court order from before that he is suppose to do to see his son. Why do I have to do this again. She kept saying anybody has the right to file papers for a modification. The judge will either grant or deny. He is just trying to get out of paying for child support and he wants to torture me in some way. Why? Why can they not switch my date. I can not get off of work that day and my son gets out of school at 2:30 the court is at 1:30. This is so unfair.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-11-2003
In reply to: crk21
Thu, 05-13-2004 - 2:11am
I agree, it is unfair.

Peace and hugs,

Cheryl =)

The minute you settle for less than you