wow, I didn't think it was that bad

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Registered: 04-21-2004
wow, I didn't think it was that bad
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Sat, 05-15-2004 - 8:21am
Looked at the link that was posted about abusive behaviors. Decided I would only look for the things that had occured in the last year, 55!!!

That really opened my eyes.

I didn't think it was that bad, till I start looking at it in a more detached way. No wonder I feel so screwed up all the time!!

Lori

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Sat, 05-15-2004 - 8:29am
Funny, I did the same thing too...but I looked at EVERYTHING over the past 15 years and came up with 40...however, some of these things have not occurred in YEARS (so does that count)....I also find that NONE of this stuff has occurred in 2 months (since I got the laywer)...but wow! what a reality check--IF I ever doubted that it was abuse, being able to check off 40 things definitely sets home that it was NOT IN MY HEAD.

whew.

dharma