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bad news about hurtinginga(van)....
| Tue, 05-25-2004 - 9:49pm |
As she posted...she went into a shelter on Saturday (or Sunday). She still had a RO in place, was in touch with the police....but she went to work. Her ex came in and took her from the store, while her friend Chris was there (chris used to post here as her friend). As soon as they left, Chris took down the tag number and immediately called the police. Christ emailed me not too long ago....the police found him, arrested him...but no Van :-( Her current whereabouts are unknown.
Everyone please pray for her safety and well being.
dharma

Thank you for posting, Dharma.
CL-Blueliner4
Michelle
I share your sentiments...I can't even describe the profound anger, sadness, confusion, injustice that I feel about this. It is SO INFURIARITING that ANY woman has to go the lengths she has to get away from this maniac. She took all the steps she should have for an abused woman. However, her man was a bit different...and I think that the ONLY way to escape is what either you or bama suggested---leave town, change her name. But that just angers me, that and the fact the law enforcement community cannot provide MORE protection, but there are so many limitations, some which I understand, some that I don't.
I really, really hope the cops are working him over (and if I know cops, they are ;-) ]
The worst part...is one of her last emails to me she said that she knew he would come looking for her and maybe it would be easier to get it "over and done with" because then he would move on. And all I kept feeling was fear...that after 60 days in jail he would be so enraged that it would be her last time.
This morning I just keep praying that she's alive.....
dharma
Chris just emailed me....she's alive! (thank GOD! I was thinking the worst!!). The maniac decided to tell the police where she was around 8:30 pm last night (I'm sure after some "convincing"). The police found her, unconscious, in a hotel around 9 pm. Unfortunately, what she feared, occurred. She was kept in the hospital overnight...Chris went to the hospital and stayed with her overnight.
The maniac now has a host of OTHER charges brought against him...I'm sure in addition to the violation of the RO and domestic abuse. But as I told Chris...NOW is the time for her to start planning her PERMANENT escape from him. I have no doubt that that when he gets out of jail...and he WILL get out at some point...he will come for her, and will most likely have fatal results.
The slaves had the Underground Railroad.....the Feds have the Witness Protection Program. Where the F*(& is something for WOMEN trying to escape this HELL?????
dharma
Mama Harmony
Lori
dharma
love to all here..
Aquarian Starseed