getting ready to make a big step

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Registered: 06-10-2003
getting ready to make a big step
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Wed, 06-09-2004 - 2:08am
After a long conversation with my sis last night I think I have come up with a plan to move forward. My h is on a fishing trip with his brother but when he gets back I am going to tell him that I am going to go on vacation with our 2 kids for a month and visit my sis then meet my dad for a camping trip and finally visit our oldest who just left home and then head back home. Corse the part I wont tell him is that I may not head home I may stay with my sis. When I have posted before someone once gave me a link to a site where I can find out about my legal rights as far as leaving the state with our kids and if I can - when I have tried to leave before that was one of the issues - he called the sheriffs office and had them looking for me saying I had our kids and was leaving - then another time he told me I could go but the kids were staying - I talked to one lawyer a long time ago and was told that if I left the house then I reliquish all rights to my kids. I have recently been told that that may not be true. Any links or other info would be greatly apprechiated, I feel good but he hasn't come back home yet and I haven't tried to tell him this yet I hope I don't back down. I have been so unhappy for so long I have to do something - I wish it didn't have to be this way but I don't see things getting any better.

Thanks for the support and the help

LJ

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Wed, 06-09-2004 - 1:29pm

The website:


www.womenslaw.org


CL-Blueliner4