Problems with XH!

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Registered: 12-10-2003
Problems with XH!
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Thu, 06-10-2004 - 8:23am
Well, as you may remember from a previous post of mine, the XH's sister has been conveniently "showing up" wherever I go on the weekends. Also, I don't think I mentioned this before, but she's driven past my house at least once that I know of. BF was out in the driveway washing the cars and she drove by, slowed WAAAAAY down and gave him an evil look, and then sped up and kept going. Also, a couple weeks ago, we saw her at a club when BF and I went out with some friends. She positioned herself *right beside the door* so we would have to walk past her to get out of the club. Well, when we were ready to leave and we walked past her, she said "SLUT" in my general direction, and she said it *plenty* loud enough to be clearly heard over the music. I just kept going.

So, last night (while BF and I were out on the front porch of our house), XH drives by in his truck, which now has new wheels and tires. He *totally* wanted us to see him, because he had his stereo *blaring*, windows down, driving pretty slow. This makes me wonder how many times he's driven by already that we don't know about. Also, it makes me wonder what he would have done if it was just me outside the house, and BF wasn't home. Not to mention the fact that BF and I are going out of town next week to visit my dad, and the house will be empty all week. I'm really nervous about what he might do when he realizes that there's no one home because we're on vacation. (I can almost bet that he's been driving by on a regular basis, and he knows our schedules.) I'm not sure if I can get the police involved at this late date or not. (The divorce has been final since March 24, and I've been out of the house since last October.) What do you guys think? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Love,

Emm

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 06-10-2004 - 1:48pm

Emm, I replied to your post upstairs.

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