Date you got out OR personal deadline ?

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Registered: 08-12-2004
Date you got out OR personal deadline ?
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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 6:51pm

I thought of what I hope is a good question to ask.

What is the date that you got out of your relationship that wasn't healthy (MM/DD/YYYY) OR what is the date you have *set* for yourself to be out of the relationship that isn't healthy? (MM/DD/YYYY)

My date was 09/06/2004.

:)

Happy weekend to all!!

Me

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 7:17pm

MAMA HARMONY & WILD ONE'S FREEDOM DATE


11.14.1999


Wild One was exactly 14 months old.

Mama Harmony

Mama Harmony

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Registered: 02-08-2005
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 8:43pm

Hrmmm, I honestly cant remember the exact date. but I know it was in August of 2003,...however, he "attempted" to weasel his way BACK into my life the third go around in November of the same year.

5yrssm 
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Registered: 06-17-2004
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 9:40am
On March 20, 2005, a Saturday, I packed up and went to a shelter. My kids were 20-months-old, three-years-old, and I was about five months pregnant.
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 6:39pm

Left:

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 07-14-2003
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 8:03pm

It was a process.

February 2, 2003: Delusion of marriage began final collapse.

Late June, 2003: For lack of a better phrase, this was the real divorce. The law just had to catch up with reality.

September 10, 2004: Freedom day. Divorce became absolute and I moved out.

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Thu, 09-01-2005 - 12:22am
Well I had a date set of my 40th birthday. I seems that I just could not wait till then I left or more to the point made him leave 1/10/2002 7 days before my 27th birthday. There was no planning it was just over and that was the day I was done and would never let him back again and haven't. We see each other each week when I pick up the kids and get along very well but that I because I don't have to live with him. And to this day he wants me back and will only love me but is still screwing half the town. I'll never believe his crap and will not believe that he has changed even if he has for I'll never go back and I never want to know and I like self preservation it keeps me going and just now want to date and I guess I've just now thought that not all guys are like him and have enjoyed my life with my kids and for all who know me my house is clean. I called maintence and am getting a new kitchen and new bathroom in my apartment and my new best friend is helping by coming over and helping or just to make sure things are getting done and making sure I call to get things fixed and is getting some people together to help me repaint my apartment and my mom is going to decorate it and it will after three years have no reflection of him. It's been three years I guess it is about time I change my surroundings. I have a new excitement about my world. Maybe it is all the new appliances. Who knows but I'm happy. HUGS and Prayers to you all.>Jo
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Registered: 06-29-2005
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 4:45pm

Deadline date: 09/12/2005

Didn't make it....filed for separation/Divorce on 07/01/2005

In the process....the very, very long process....living in the same house. Soon it will be over :)

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Registered: 09-10-2005
Sat, 09-10-2005 - 3:28pm

All my dates have come and gone and I am still in the same place I was before. It is kind of hard just to leave which seems odd because why would a person want to stay with someone who treats them like crap. I don't know.

Aspen

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Registered: 08-07-2004
Sun, 09-11-2005 - 2:02pm

Date of escape: July 11, 2005.

It was a long ride, but I did it with the help of the most amazing friends on Earth.

Love, hugs and prayers...

:)

"Make a decision and then stick with it.
The moment of absolute certainty never arrives..."

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Sun, 09-11-2005 - 9:23pm

Left him on August 24/2002

Divorce is hopefully about a week away!! (yaaaa)

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