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Tired of It
| Tue, 09-06-2005 - 11:39am |
Hi...new here. Call me Elle. Have posted on some of the boards and just found this one. I need advice. I am sick and tired of my boyfriends attitude. One minute he is nice and loving and the next he is blowing up at me. Case in point. Friday I left work early ( we own a business ) and was going to do some ME TIME. Well he called and told me to get my ass back to the office and figure out what happened to his last motorbike payment. He said they just called and said that it was not paid in June. I knew I paid it in July and Aug, so I thought WTH? So he startes yelling at me on the phone telling me that if his credit is bad he is gonna take it out of my ass and this and that. I tryed to remain calm ( a tactic I have found shortens the lenght of what I have to hear) Everytime I opened my mouth to try and tell him I had taken care of it, he told me to shut up and started talking again. Then I hung up and he called back and ask if I want pizza for dinner? How can someone go from one extreme to another like that? I think he is bipolar or something. I mean I am moody when I am on my period, but this is crazy. I am constantly feeling like I am walking on eggshells and all weekend I was waiting on him to start about the payment again. When he throws these tantrums as I call them, I hate him....I mean it angers me so much that he won't listen to me. It is eating me up inside. I am at work this morning, and talked to him twice on the phone. He has been nice. but I never know when the other shoe is gonna drop. Does anyone here know what I am talking about? I could use some comfort from someone who understands my situation.

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Welcome to the board DBA....
First of all what you are dealing with is Jeckyl & Hyde scenario.
No honey, not everyone is like him.
he was in a good mood because he won in his mind. They always want sex if they think they have the upper hand, but sex to them is a weapon. It is a means of control.
I know what you mean though. It is like yeah right whatever, you want sex so now I should be able to want it as well. There is just no joy in it anymore you know?
And the house thing? Mine is always saying, "we need to fix up the house. I am going to redo the bathroom etc etc." But saying is as far as it goes. Sigh.
Hang in there. They are so impossible to deal with. I wish they would just grow up.
I am soo tired of walking on eggshells around him.
GT I can't be me.
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