Some ideas in case you get to the point
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| Mon, 09-26-2005 - 10:53pm |
where you can finally leave your abuser - & if you have children who he will have visitaion with ... these are some of what i feel are the most importatnt issues in my divorce settlement we are putting forth soon, for the safety of my daughters & my own, emotional & physical well being ...
1. about having joint legal custody with a vindictive trouble-making X who may try to fight you on things, JUST to fight you - whether or not its in the best interest of the child. Someone warned me about his being able to nix schooling decisions, just b/c he can. So, i had this put in: "In the event the parties are not able to reach agreement on educational plans for child, this issue will be referred to a mutually acceptable mediator for mediation, and after speaking with both parties, the child herself, her teachers and/or guidance counselor, the mediator will make the decision which will be binding upon both parties."
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| Tue, 09-27-2005 - 12:33am |
| Tue, 09-27-2005 - 7:10am |

