Details on court yesterday & settlement
Ok, now that I have come down from my cloud! lol Here are some details:
Basically the BEST thing was that they fell for the custody wording ... I know that if & when he realizes it, he COULD go back to challenge it in court, but for now, i will just know in the back of my mind, its there for Avereys protection when he is nutz (like he was at pick up this morn, surprise, surprise - telling me he hopes the plans crashes with me on it, IN FRONT OF AVE ... when of course, SHE will be on it too ... A**wipe - & about his 16 yr old neice staying with us? "& tell Brit she isnt MY neice anymore" - he also said to Ave "& Mommy & Daddy went to COURT yesterday b/c MOMMY wants a divorce & Daddy doesnt")
Anyway, the negatives were I am only awarded $303 a month CS based on his "unemployment". *I* happen to know he is working under the table & making WAY more ... but I am not challenging it at this point. If i need to, down the road, I will. I need some time to NOT be fighting. & no, we didnt get his pay attched at this point. In reality, i am ok with it b/c i will just keep records of what he doesnt pay & its money in the bank for me to take off that 2nd settlement payment 4 yrs from now.