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| Wed, 07-05-2006 - 12:12pm |
I dont know if this is the place i should post or not... i have beenM for 6.5 yrs.. spent the better part of that separated for one reason or another. we have 2 beautiful kids, who unfortunately have had to deal with the turmoil and drama of the parents R. H is controlling, suspicious, insecure (although he'd tell you different). I'm not allowed tohave friends that he doesn't like/approve of. the other day my mother called my cell phone and he got made bc she called that instead of the house phone. i don't know what to do.. i am so very ready to leave, but i can't afford to do it right now. He's getting to the point wehre Dr jeckyl/Mr hyde is an understatement of massive proportion. if i don't put most of my paychekc into the bank account that is only in his name i am causing us to not have any money... yet he gets anywhere from $40-$100 out at atm's everyweek, and spends $65 on "spotlights" for his truck (in case we ever go play in the mud)... my truck has problems and so he bought the parts needed to fix it a few weeks ago, but when i told him i was leaving him, he got up early one morning (before i got up) and got into my truck and took the parts back to the store to get the money back. ("If you're leaving then you can get it fixed your damb self!") I don't know if youwould call this abuse or just me over-reacting... we've only been back together about 6 months this time ( i left last Feb and was actually doing pretty well for myself until i made some stupid decisions on a R i got into while we were separated)... long story short, i have minimal love for the man, i have no respect for him, and have basically come to the point that i am only with him for financial reasons... i don't want my son growing up thinking it's okay to belittle women and i don't want my daughter growing up with the self esteem problems that she has seen in her mother. Any advice or anything from anyone would be greatly appreciated. Thanks...
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