Ladies, input...please!

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Registered: 10-21-2006
Ladies, input...please!
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Sun, 11-05-2006 - 5:02pm

Over the weekend H and I had a banquet to attend, as soon as we were on our way, he started in, you know what the lawyer said..., I know, you're abused (he would only have found any such mention of the word from this site or my phone calls) on and on, the whole hour there. I'm a mess from the head games pver the weekend and trying to hold it together! Had to break down ask for money to buy an outfit as I don't have many semi-formal clothes. "AT least I'm good for something" Told me on the way home irritated he was that he had to buy me an outfit! We're married! Than he blasted the newer James Blunt song about splitting up, and every other song that was depressing.

Some encouraging words please? Any words? I'm alone here. Still a little freaked about him being a block away from where my appt was Friday. Help!

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Registered: 04-21-2003
Sun, 11-05-2006 - 11:42pm
Weekends are usually hard for me too - he isn't at work and has more time to make me feel like crap. Well, TGIS!!!!! (Thank God it's Sunday!) You will get through this, I will get through this. Maybe you can go blast some songs that make you feel good :)
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Registered: 10-21-2006
Mon, 11-06-2006 - 9:34am
It seems strange to look forward to Mondays! Just re-read and realized how my post comes across. Was in a hurry, trying to write while he was gone. Forgot to mention that on the way back home, he needed smokes. I don't know what was said to H, I was making coffee, but heard his response to clerk that it was ok, he was just going to go home and blow his head off. The clerk was looking at him as he walked away, I just said told him not to worry, I was the designated driver. It is difficult to be here right now, he's not saying much about me, but using more guilt trips. Thanks for the response! Good idea, there are few CD's I haven't listened to in awhile.