This is freaky

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Registered: 11-25-2006
This is freaky
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Fri, 01-05-2007 - 11:49am

Hi everyone,
Well I called around to the hospitals and they all said the same thing, we don't call anyone out of the blues to update records. I keep calling that # and no answer it just rings and rings.
I documented it. I am sure it's H. I am not going to stress this, it's was driving me crazy last nite, couldn't sleep. I believe that's what he wants, to drive me crazy.
Sick B-----D.

Lisa

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Registered: 05-19-2006
Fri, 01-05-2007 - 12:53pm

Ya... I too believe it has something to do with H ... especially that you were calling around and they would NEVER do that! Even what Blueliner said. I hope they don't call again!

Lauren

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Fri, 01-05-2007 - 1:00pm

Hey Lauren,
You know what I hope they call again, I'm documenting all of this. I am so sick of this whole thing, for a second, and i mean a second :) last nite I thought maybe I should let H come see the girls, but reality slapped me and said NO F______ WAY!!!

Lisa

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Registered: 10-21-2006
Fri, 01-05-2007 - 5:48pm

Don't give in and let him see the girls unless you're going to do it supervised like you mentioned awhile back. Remind yourself what happens as soon as you let him near your front door. Lisa, honestly, you were my inspiration when my oldest boy was crying and I was tempted to go against the order and let him see H. I didn't want him to hurt like that, so I considered it. Our gut will tell us and we need to listen. I hate that any of these kids have to feel rejected, or confused or any of it! But neither my kids or yours will get what they need from these men. They'll stick them in the middle and probably question them about us and what we're doing. I really worry about my 2 w/ H. I'm looking forward to counseling w/ them. I just want to know how to handle this in the best possible way for them all.

Does your DV center have counseling for the girls? How old are they?

Carrie

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Fri, 01-05-2007 - 6:40pm

Hey Carrie,
how are you, girlfriend? I hate the fact that it's so easy for these jerks to walk away and then give the "I'm sorry, I love you and the kids" I can't ever just leave and not come back for 1-2 nites, sometimes alot more than that, but they can?
Ranting and raving how much he loves his girls and wants to be with them, yeah right! As long as I'm there. I think alot of things he has said and done, and sometimes I wonder does he even know what he has said. He seems crazy, like just insane, his eyes blood red, almost like he's in a trance, ready to kill. Isn't that weird?
My girls, Sophia will be 6 on the 19th, and Adianez is 8 and my know-it-all :) Aliysia who is 15. I am also looking forward to going to counseling with my girls, it'll be good for us, were very close, it's sad, it hurts me that they are scared for me go out sometimes, just to run errands.
Most of the time I take them with me. I hope they see that i love them and that i am trying to protect them.

Lisa

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Registered: 10-21-2006
Fri, 01-05-2007 - 10:46pm

Have 6, 9 and 16 year old so I can totally relate! All the more reason to stay away! Yeah, I was reminded of the nights he just didn't come home. I forgot until I found an old letter I wrote.

We have much to look forward to! Plenty of lessons to teach our girls. Hang in there Lisa!

Carrie

PS DD was afraid for us to get out of the van when H was at the same store, I get it. Poor things! They're smarter than we think!

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Fri, 01-05-2007 - 11:08pm

My girls get scared to walk down the street, thinking he'll drive by, sucks! But I know they trust me and feel safe with me, thankgod!

Lisa