Just a note to say.......

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2003
Just a note to say.......
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Wed, 12-10-2003 - 7:42pm
Just need to say. Since I got into this "A" thing and reading the postings here, I find it so ironic that so many I read or have read sound so similar. I know that in whatever way, every affair has some differences, but I find comfort in reading here cause the situations are my situations too and reading the posting helps make me realize that I don't think I want this for my life anymore. But like everyone here knows.... breaking it off, breaking up, cutting all ties, what ever you want to call it is so very hard. Thanks for helping me thru this even if you don't realize you are. I tell myself everday, I was okay before this started, and I'll be okay once it's over. Maybe even realize that I'm happy.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2003
Thu, 12-11-2003 - 12:16pm
Yes, it is hard but in the end, once it's all said and done, it's not as much the happiness that matters but the inner peace you will feel. It's just an awesome feeling of control over my life!

Wishing you strength, courage and determination. It will be worth all the pain of letting go! I promise :)