This Is Hard
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This Is Hard
| Mon, 12-15-2003 - 9:30am |
Well I am at work. Trying to move on, and think its over. He asked me to go down and smoke, we did. I noticied he had his ring on. I said, well I guess you know what your feelings are if you have the ring back on. He said no, he put it back on yesterday to keep her from continueing to bug him.
I know this was stupid. I asked him if he missed me, or thought about me. He said he did.
I am trying to be strong. It is just hurting.

Sure, he loves you, he misses you, he wishes he could be coming home to you but the bottom line is he is NOT. period! Please stop being a glutton for punishment because you deserve better!
Also, you need to accept, come to the realization of not *thinking* it's over but that it is over because regardless of what comes out of this man's mouth, it's all lies. MM do not put their wedding rings back on because their wife badgers them...they do it because they want to. I hope and pray for you (because I know how horribly hard it is) that you use the significance of the wedding ring as your LAST proof that he's committed himself to someone else.
Let's work on you becoming strong enough to say NO thanks to all his future communications......OK? You will see that once you do this, you will be empowered to keep saying NO and with enough time, you'll start caring less and less about him because you will be moving on with YOUR life.
Good Luck to you.