what a tangled web he weaves....

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Registered: 09-21-2003
what a tangled web he weaves....
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Tue, 12-16-2003 - 4:24pm
Shescomeundone - you will appreciate this!! And I am sure so many more will as well.

I have been working on trying to refocus on things in my life that are healthy and good for me - of course, I fall off the wagon now and again when it comes to the OMM...mr. sexual addiction...and it is still tough since he and I are still working our business together - but hopefully we are working towards an amicable agreement to close our business without alerting others to the *real* reason... anyhow...

I was away for a few days and HE was at my house ( where he lives when he is working in town) and he got a screaming phone call from the W...seems that *someone* named Michelle - sent him a postcard from a tourist area in a state several hundred of miles away, thanking him for the "great sex, dinner, drinks etc.. and hoping he would find more time in the very near future to get together with her again..." Well, it was like an answered prayer in a way - since I was wanting the W to find out - for health reasons.. and had not figured out how to do it. Seems, Mr. sex addict, then thought *I* had put someone up to it - and I will admit ..I THOUGHT about it, but I didn't --guess I didnt have to. The funny thing is the card was sent to his old address and was forwarded and so it was about 6 weeks old... and he is trying to deny to me ( and now the W too) that he has been with anyone else.

I must admit for a brief moment, I was sorry for his situation - then I remembered having to take an HIV test, etc etc and that thought quickly went away...

F4L

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 12-17-2003 - 11:16pm

Just goes to show you...what goes around, comes around...eventually.....


Putting the thought out there (having someone else send the wife a postcard) just may have caused a cosmic shift somewhere.


Who knows? At least now you know for sure xMM was lying to you as well as his wife.


I hope all your tests are negative....


cl-nre

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Fri, 12-19-2003 - 1:12pm
aw man!!!!!! that couldn't have worked out any better now, huh? And even after this he tries to deny seeing anyone else....what a liar.....typical sex addict...lies upon lies upon lies.....

You know, with someone like this you just have to sit back and watch them screw themselves...eventually this kind of lifestyle comes back to haunt them......

score one for fool...this should be even more reason for you to stay away from him!

Jazzdiva