nc makes all the difference in the world
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| Tue, 12-16-2003 - 8:11pm |
but i can't email him b/c i don't have access to the email acct that he has the address for (i told my friend to change the passwd so that i don't send him an email in a moment of weakness). and while i don't want him to have my new personal email address, i started to write an email from my new email acct (can you believe that? after all the trouble i went through notifying everyone of my new address!)
...almost hit send....
you know what stopped me? the thought of resetting NC. no way. no how. i'm at 10 wks. not a snow ball's chance in hell am i going to give that up. if i did, i wouldn't hit the 10 wk mark again until nearly march of NEXT yr. nope. not gonna do it.
see, nc does work.
and after typing up this little note, i'm no longer tempted to email him. besides, it wouldn't solve my own personal issues anyhow. in fact, it would exacerbate them. ah, thank gawd for this board and all the people on it!!!

Way to go!!!
You're inspiring!
I only just decided NC. I'm just not sure if it is better to cut him off cold turkey, or should I communicate something to him. How did you initiate your NC with your XMMs?
Thanks!!