My MM and I just ended our 9 year A.
Iknowitstime
(and so do you)
Cali~
Your sense of humor is still intact!
Good luck on your new life path. Being single again and interested in a full life and no more secrets I'm sure will be rewarding for you......
cl-nre
Stay strong and determined because there are bumps along the road.
I lost 200 lbs. of pure jackass.....and then i lost another 25 of my own butt....that is 225 lbs total! Let us see what I gained:
- Self respect- Peace of mind (not lied to anymore by XOM)- Safety- Sanity- Energy to deal with my own problems, not his constant chaos- A clearer mind to deal with my marriage, not clouded by the A- Oh, and I look freaking good in jeans now.
I'm sure there is more which i will find out about as time goes on.
Jazzdiva
YOU GO GIRL and I'm right beside you!
She's...I'm going to add what I'm looking forward to "gaining."
-self-respect
-going to bed at night knowing I didn't have to lie that day
-being free to discover things about myself
-being free from a ridiculous "committment"
-the freedom to someday start a REAL relationship with someone who deserves me
I know the sadness will come because more than anything we're good friends.
Cali~
Your sense of humor is still intact!
Good luck on your new life path. Being single again and interested in a full life and no more secrets I'm sure will be rewarding for you......
cl-nre
Stay strong and determined because there are bumps along the road.
I lost 200 lbs. of pure jackass.....and then i lost another 25 of my own butt....that is 225 lbs total! Let us see what I gained:
- Self respect
- Peace of mind (not lied to anymore by XOM)
- Safety
- Sanity
- Energy to deal with my own problems, not his constant chaos
- A clearer mind to deal with my marriage, not clouded by the A
- Oh, and I look freaking good in jeans now.
I'm sure there is more which i will find out about as time goes on.
Jazzdiva
YOU GO GIRL and I'm right beside you!
She's...I'm going to add what I'm looking forward to "gaining."
-self-respect
-going to bed at night knowing I didn't have to lie that day
-being free to discover things about myself
-being free from a ridiculous "committment"
-the freedom to someday start a REAL relationship with someone who deserves me
I know the sadness will come because more than anything we're good friends.
Iknowitstime
(and so do you)