Losing 200 pounds

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Losing 200 pounds
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Fri, 12-19-2003 - 1:59pm

My MM and I just ended our 9 year A.

Iknowitstime

(and so do you)

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Registered: 10-12-2003
Sat, 12-20-2003 - 1:26am
Losing 200lbs. Good way to look at it. Well I have lost about 175lbs but not sure if it was good for my health. I know one day I will see it was. Glad to see you doing well. Thanks for being great support.

Cali~

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Sat, 12-20-2003 - 3:22pm

Your sense of humor is still intact!


Good luck on your new life path. Being single again and interested in a full life and no more secrets I'm sure will be rewarding for you......


cl-nre

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Registered: 11-19-2003
Sun, 12-21-2003 - 12:11am
I too like your sense of humor and I'm happy to have lost 220 pounds! Life is much lighter now!

Stay strong and determined because there are bumps along the road.

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Sun, 12-21-2003 - 1:12am
Okay , now i have to do math....

I lost 200 lbs. of pure jackass.....and then i lost another 25 of my own butt....that is 225 lbs total! Let us see what I gained:

- Self respect

- Peace of mind (not lied to anymore by XOM)

- Safety

- Sanity

- Energy to deal with my own problems, not his constant chaos

- A clearer mind to deal with my marriage, not clouded by the A

- Oh, and I look freaking good in jeans now.


I'm sure there is more which i will find out about as time goes on.

Jazzdiva

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Registered: 11-19-2003
Sun, 12-21-2003 - 2:03am
SHE, I'm exhausted and in desperate need of sleep but I just have to tell you I LOVE YOUR ATTITUDE and this post!

YOU GO GIRL and I'm right beside you!

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Sun, 12-21-2003 - 9:29am

She's...I'm going to add what I'm looking forward to "gaining."


-self-respect


-going to bed at night knowing I didn't have to lie that day


-being free to discover things about myself


-being free from a ridiculous "committment"


-the freedom to someday start a REAL relationship with someone who deserves me


I know the sadness will come because more than anything we're good friends.

Iknowitstime

(and so do you)