another update

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Registered: 08-11-2003
another update
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Tue, 12-23-2003 - 7:05pm
Hi everyone!I posted about 2 weeks NC.Well today xom gave me a gift and a hug.Said he missed me and would like to see me after work.I said I can't do that.I told him I missed him to but couldn't take the guilt of being so dishonest to my h.And he told me that he feels guilty to but he does care for me alot,even though he got m.Yea I just found out.I was hurt in a way but I know that I shouldn't be.The hug was great but I didn't let the emotions get to me.I'm really trying.Holidays are coming fast and I really want to be happy with my h and kids.H has been wonderful.I really hope that I can get the love back for him because he deserves it.Well I hope everyone has a Merry Christmas.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2003
Tue, 12-23-2003 - 8:01pm
you take care and have a good christmas. i think you handled that encounter very well.