If he did it to her, he will do it to u

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Registered: 12-23-2003
If he did it to her, he will do it to u
Mon, 12-29-2003 - 8:31pm
My MM's marriage failed (although he is still in it) because he is incapable of being in an intimate relationship. When he is IN a relationship, he pushes away the object of his desire (who no longer is the object of desire once he has her). He does not communicate. He does not give compliments. He does not love with all of his heart like he says he will, until he is called upon to do it.

What happened to her has happened to me. I got sucked in. I thought it would be different with me. He told me it would be (rueful smirk here)....I believed him because I needed to, because I wanted to.