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To Riverguy
| Tue, 12-30-2003 - 2:55pm |
I just have to ask you a few questions. Now that you are in therapy and are working on your marriage, are you sill in love with the OW? Do you miss her and still want to be with her? How is she(OW) doing since she still has to see you everyday at work. How do you feel about your wife? I'm just curious to know if you got over your OW that easily. Thanks for your reply.

It is hard to take this story up again from the beginning. I showed up in Sept and was very actively posting for a few months. The archives have some of my story.
Some of these are hard to answer, but I'll try.
Q: Do I still love the OW?
A: Not like I did. Does that mean that what I felt wasn't real? No. Of course not. Does that mean that what I felt wasn't real? Yes, Of course. (Not being contrite; just honest)
Q: Do I miss her?
A: Yes, at times, but not like I did.
Q: Do I still want to be with her?
A: No.
Q: How is she doing?
A: Great. This process was always harder for me than for her. We don't work in the same office; she works for my #1 customer.
Q: My wife? How do I feel?
A: Love her.
Q: over the OW "that easily"?
A: One of the hardest things I've ever done (and am still doing). Nothin' easy on this board folks. That's what makes it a good one. If you read the history, you'll see that I really struggled.
(xOW is a southern girl, too.)