As his wedding day approaches

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-07-2003
As his wedding day approaches
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Tue, 12-30-2003 - 4:07pm
Hey everybody,

Sure have missed posting and talking to everyone.The past week was so hectic with Christmas and my in laws here from Texas...not to mention almost ALL of MY immediate and extended family here also.Whew,i'm glad it's over!!!

I'm having a pretty hard day today,don't know how many read my post about OM getting married,but his wedding day is sat.,the 3rd.He just had to pop online one day to tell me all about his future wedding,and how happy he is,all the while knowing how much i'm still hurting over him and how much i still love him.I just don't know why he would want to hurt me further by doing that.I know i'll never understand it.

Trying to get over him has been hard enough by itself,but to hear i have been replaced so soon and the love we had is already gone,well,it was a slap in my face.I just really don't know how you can go from wanting a woman to be your wife one day and then just a few short weeks later be engaged to someone else.I just don't understand it.I'm sorry to ramble,i'm just hurting so much.What really pisses me off is he had to lay this on me 3 days before xmas,how heartless is that???

God i just wish i knew how to get over him and stop letting him hurt me....

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2003
Tue, 12-30-2003 - 4:16pm
Agreed.

That is some harsh stuff.

But the ability to get over it is within you. You can do it. Don't just give him that power over you; it is yours to keep or give.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2003
Tue, 12-30-2003 - 4:43pm
Wow. That has to be so tough. Having had my affair with a s-om I always wondered what I would do when the time came that he fell in love with someone else. Lucky for me I have no contact and won't (hopefully) have to deal with that reality. But you will get through this just like you have gotten through the rest of it...with your self intact. Keep moving forward!!! The best of luck to you!!

Karry

Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige